This has happened to me as well, especially from people who find out my orientation.
Everyday Sociology Blog: Why Can't We Have a Straight Pride Parade?
In fact, it happened at my work, recently.
I pointed out to this very sweet old woman—“Have you ever gone to a Greek Festival? Like the ones over in Tarpon Springs?”
”Yes! I love it, it’s great fun!”
”Do you ask, why can’t there be a…whatever nationality you are?”
”I guess, I guess I don’t.”
I try to explain to her what it is like, growing up as a minority. My parents? Jewish. We’d go to Jewish festivals and holidays, and, whilst there were a goodly number of gentiles present, it was a time to celebrate our identity and as a family and community. It wasn’t for the nonJews, as it were.
With this same woman, I asked her, “do you feel like you are oppressed? Do you feel that you are being put down because you are straight?”
”Yes! I do!” she stated matter of factly.
“You do? I’m sorry to hear that. What can we do to make you feel better? Would the parade help you feel better? Should we change laws to make sure you feel better?”
She got quiet. I’m still not sure if I’m getting through to her. She’s a great lady. I’m surprised, sometimes, at how much she still isn’t sure about—yet she has a degree and everything. Amazes me. I’m okay with this, mind you. We’re all students in some manner.
Peace,
Bardy
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